Don't blame me cuz you're lonely

I really hate when someone decides to help you out, then makes you feel like crap for it. Like seriously? Who asked you. Oh wait I did, but I'm asking someone else now.
What kind of gift is it to help if you are going to degrade the person or have an attitude about it? Thats not helping, and no one forced you to help.

Most recent experience
Girl: "What are you doing Sunday?"
Guy: "Have to chauffeuring the ex."
Girl: "Why?"
Guy: "Right?"

Yes, I asked the wrong person to pick me up from work. I looked at him like "Really?" Thats the only thing he was doing by "chauffeuring". Pick me up from work and take me home, thats it. Not much. But it ruined his plans because it was 11 at night. AT NIGHT! He had ALL day to hang out with this girl. ALL STINKING DAY! But because he had to pick me up at 11 at night he couldnt? He does this, hangs out with girls late at night, constantly has them at his house, then wonders why hes not in a relationship and why nothing works out. Sheesh.

So he HAS TO chauffeur me apparently. Does he HAVE to HANG OUT with me too? Does he have to call me up to hang.
Him: "I'm bored wanna do something?"
Me: "Gotta work."
Him: "Oh"
Me: "Why?"
Him: "I wanted to go do (... activity...)
Me: "Find someone else."
Him: "I don't have anyone else."

If he'd quit using girls the wrong way he'd have someone to hang out with during the day and not at night! If he got along with other guys he'd have someone to hang with!
But my point is this- NO ONE is forcing him to hang out with me. He wants to. NO ONE is forcing him to say yes to giving me a ride home, I assume he wants to. That or he thinks I won't hang with him otherwise, which is so shallow. I think somehow he wants to make himself look like the hero and everyone else look like users. Or something. Well basically I've heard him twist things to his favor to many times. He's not honest... huh thought, no wonder he can't get a decent relationship, all his lies. I forget sometimes. Lame guy.

BTW- You can saying you can be friends with your ex, but unless you share kids and have to talk... you really shouldn't, cuz there will always be some issue in that friendship. It can never truly work out 100% healthy.